We all want to cut out the bad parts of ourselves. It won't work, and it won't make us happier

We all want to cut out the bad parts of ourselves. It won't work, and it won't make us happier

Briefly

Individuals have a wish and belief that with effort or external help, they can eliminate parts they dislike. This sentiment is common but not always recognized consciously.

www.theguardian.comhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/may/06/we-all-want-to-cut-out-the-bad-parts-of-ourselves-it-wont-work-and-it-wont-make-us-happier

What irritates us in others might reflect our own disliked traits. It can be vulnerabilities, traumas one wishes to undo, or the urge to deny being in need.

www.theguardian.comhttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/article/2024/may/06/we-all-want-to-cut-out-the-bad-parts-of-ourselves-it-wont-work-and-it-wont-make-us-happier